This morning on the radio (The Ramiro & Pebbles Show on Jamn 94.5), I had the “opportunity” to interview one of Tiger Woods’ mistresses.  Joslyn James is her name, and she’s the one who released the 100 or so text messages that Tiger sent her including gems like, “I want to treat you rough, throw you around, spank and slap you,” and “You are my f**king whore. Hold you down while I choke you.” During the conversation, she repeatedly said that coming out was not about the money and that all she wanted was an apology from Tiger, and to get the truth out there.  REALLY???  I had to challenge her because apparently, she’s coming out with some other tasty morsel of scandaliciousness (new word!) that she plans to drop just before Tiger’s comeback at The Masters.  Mind you, I have NO sympathy for Tiger at all, but for her to say that this has nothing to do with money and/or fame whoring is ridiculous!  I wanted to straight out call her a liar, but honestly, I didn’t feel it was worth the energy.  The fact that she feels she deserves an apology from Tiger is laughable.  Again, I don’t sympathize with him at all, but come on, what is he apologizing for?  You KNEW he was married and still carried on a relationship with him!  No one is feeling sorry for either one of you.

That brings me to my next point.  Jesse James Mistress #3, Brigitte Daguerre, has some words of her own about her role in the break-up of Jesse’s marriage to Sandra Bullock.  In a statement on her website, Brigitte said the following…“For the record, I have ruined no ones marriage. The married person is always responsible for his/her actions & single people are not responsible for other people’s relationships/marriages.” While she says that she and Jesse only had sex 4 times and didn’t have an actual relationship, let’s talk about that statement she made.

My personal opinion is that if someone is married, cheats on his/her partner and they break up, they are responsible.  I also believe that if you are having an affair with a married person and you know they are married, you are also to blame.  You may not be the one who is committing infidelity, but you are wrong as well.  I was asked by my co-host Ramiro, if I had to say who was more at fault who would I blame, and believe it or not, I agree with Brigitte.  It is the married person’s responsibility to remain faithful.   But to say that the other person should accept no blame for the break-up is insane.

That is why Joslyn James needs to take her 100 Tiger Texts and whatever else she has, stop lying, and definitely stop waiting for an apology!  She doesn’t deserve one!  After reading Brigitte’s statement, if she is telling the truth, I feel a little bad for her.  She had some sex with Jesse, says she didn’t know he was married, and that one tabloid tried to pay a homeless guy in her neighborhood $500 bucks to say they saw Jesse there.  She also says that she’s not planning on doing any radio or TV tours to make some money off of this.  Joselyn, on the other hand, deserves everything she gets…except an apology from Tiger!

Just my humble opinion…Pebbles

I would love to hear what you have to say.  Do you think that the married person is more to blame?  Do mistresses deserve an apology?  Leave me a comment and let me know!